Monday marked the first day of fourth grade for Alistair! Only missing about 2 weeks of school isn't too bad. I thought for sure it would be much more back at the beginning of August! We had an early morning meeting with his principal, school nurse, teacher, school psychologist and the 3 therapists (OT, PT, & Speech) in regards to getting an IEP going for him. Meanwhile my Dad had come up the night before and was here to get the kids ready and off to the bus stop. Alistair wanted to ride the bus to school. The first step is a doozy and he needs a bit of a boost. But otherwise he handled it just fine. My Dad said Alistair told him he was nervous, but I think it had to do more with having a helper at school and how that would be perceived rather than just school in general.
After our meeting we met Dora, his paraeducator, and gave her a quick rundown on Alistair and his needs. She is very nice and seemed excited to meet him! As she headed down to the classroom to meet the teacher, we met the bus at school and helped Alistair off. We asked him if he wanted us to walk him to his classroom and he said that he wanted to line up with the rest of his class and walk down when it was time. Ok with us! So we walked him to his line, his classmates were pretty excited to see him and were even more excited when we told them he was there for school and not just visiting again! We told him goodbye and left.
I had to pick him up a bit early for his cardiology appointment. Dora walked him up, which was great as I could get a report about how it went! She said he did wonderfully. He was attentive in class, asked questions, participated in class discussions and did really well with having to dictate to her while she wrote his answers. She said he got around school just fine, but could tell as the day wore on that he got tired (lots of stairs!). She said he was noticeable less spunky in the afternoon than he was in the morning! Mrs. Harper sent me an email later and also remarked how great he did. The one piece of information nobody had a handle on was how to predict how Alistair would do in the classroom. It was a huge unknown since he didn't have many opportunities to practice prior to returning to school. But he seemed to do fine! He also remarked that Dora was, "not that bad!" In fact he chose her over me to accompany him on his field trip tomorrow. Fine with me, I applaud the independence and some space from us who he has been with non-stop since July 8th!
Tuesday he had another great day. Dora remarked that he has such a great sense of humor and has lots of interesting things to say! I had to pick him early for occupational therapy. After an hour of therapy, his therapist brought him out and made the remark that he is one of the hardest working kids she has met...this was her first day meeting him. She said that when kids have one arm and hand more dominate than the other, they tend to favor it and it is a chore to get them to work on the other. Alistair has not voiced much about his right arm and hand, but I know he is motivated to regain his range of motion and use as he is naturally right handed. He can do some things with his left and his left arm is much easier for him to move and manipulate. But this is just another example of Alistair knowing he has work to do and does it!
Wednesday was a shorter day, but he got to be there the whole day as his therapy wasn't until after school. He rode the bus home for the first time! I think he enjoyed getting do that! He started giving me some pushback on having to go to therapy and not getting a break after school. I had to explain to him that even though he is well enough to not need every therapy everyday, he still needs therapy a few times a week. He then complained to me about missing a lesson in social studies ("the most fun of the subjects to study!!"). I told him I am trying to not have to take him out of school too early too often so he doesn't miss much, which means having something after school everyday! Makes for a crazy week. It won't be forever.
Alistair has been tired in the evenings. We caught a glimpse of grouchy Alistair Monday and Wednesday nights, something we have not seen since probably June! He has been more and more active in his steps. This weekend he did a lot of walking. Saturday he went with Grandma and Grandpa and Gillian to Seattle. They went to the Seattle Team Store and then down to the Museum of Flight. We met them for dinner afterward and took the kids home. Sunday we joined our friends who invited us to the Boeing Friends and Family Day at the Renton 737 plant. He walked over 10,000 steps and over 4 miles that day! Needless to say he was exhausted!
Alistair is doing great and hanging in there with everything. It will be interesting as we settle into our new routines and schedule how he handles it. We have a therapy every day of the week except Sunday. He will also have therapy during the day at school. My main goal was to maximize his time at school as I think it will be important for him to be able to participate as much as possible to keep up and not fall behind. Plus it just helps to continue to add to his stamina and keep his mind active. Rest is also helpful for helping his brain heal and his sleeping is getting better. The wakings are beginning to subside a bit, but we still go in a few times every night. We are getting there!
























